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When “I’ll pray for you” is bad
When a person is going through this kind of terrible depression, some believers don’t know how to respond. They say, “I’ll pray for you”, which may mean, “I’m no longer listening to you.” That can be a way of ending one’s responsibility to shoulder the load. In fact when it comes to bearing one another’s…
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Lying about hurt
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Pain and hope
Pain and hope are strange companions, but great companions. In Good to Great, Jim Collins said the chief job of leaders is to never lose hope AND name the reality they’re facing, no matter how brutal it is. He called it the Stockdale Paradox, quoting from POW Jim Stockdale: You must never ever ever confuse,…
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Seeing pain more clearly
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Restoring clarity
Philip Yancey described it like this, For me Jesus has become the focal point of faith and increasingly I am learning to keep the magnifying glass of my faith focused on him. In my Spiritual journey I have long lingered over the margins, puzzling over matters like the problem of pain, the conundrum of prayer,…
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Hurt people
Hurt people hurt people. Broken people break people. Shattered people shatter people. Damaged people damage people. Wounded people wound people. Bound people bind people. But… Hurt people hurt people, but helped people help people. Broken people break people, but rebuilt people build people. Shattered people shatter people, but whole people restore people. Damaged people damage…
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When pain outweighs shame…
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Uncomforted pain
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Stretch spiritual muscles
Anyone who has ever performed physical exercise knows that there is little profit to exercising until your body feels a degree of pain. If you wake up the morning after exercising and you are not sore, you realize that the exercise only maintained your current condition. The same principle applies to your spiritual growth. If…
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Forgiveness is the key…